Thanks for updating us on this and sharing your experiences - very useful, especially as I am in the midst of experimenting with lighting myself.
I have studied umpteen lighting rigs at shows. Some look really professional, some are pretty much half-baked.
We cannot go out and buy a RTR lighting rig, so the thing has to be home-made. I suppose, the choice of materials reduces to woods, metals and plastics.
At one extreme you can build something bespoke from "raw components" like perforated steel strip with fabricated brackets. I have seen this looking good on a large 7 mm layout; it is what it is so to speak and you immediately look away from the rig and back to the modelling.
At the other extreme you can lash something up with spot lamps clamped onto a bar or even (gulp) the backdrop. This might be the right thing if you only need the rig at shows and you rarely do shows.
I have seen the miniature rainwater goods sold for garden sheds used really well to build a floor-standing rig. I mean, it looked really good and I took a double-take when I realised what it was built from. I have seen the same products used really badly, where the result looked as though the same products were the only thing the builder could think of to use.
I suppose I have tried to find a middle ground where the supports are actual lighting equipment somewhat re-arranged for the task, and the lighting bar is bespoke. I like the slender look of the aluminium section. The aluminium is 30 x 20 x 2 mm and supplied ready-painted from Wickes. It is strong enough to let me have the supports near the ends, and I need to do this because the space for the supports is near the ends of the layout.
I do know, the thin-walled aluminium tubing will collapse if you try to bend it. So if you use this, you have to go down the route of clamps or suspension components (e.g. chain) to change direction. Steel tubing from something like an old gazebo is more likely to survive in a pipe bender.