The last few posts really do show how a forum (especially WT) is such a good place to help design or indeed refine a layout. Far better than copying other people's models. Thank you everyone.
To continue . . . I have an idea.
The Blue Point switch mechanism has a double-pole changeover switch. One pair of SPCO contacts are unused, and as far as I can tell they are break-before-make. Suppose I used them to generate a pulse every time I move the points, then I could use this pulse as an input to a state machine.
Initial condition
DEFAULT
the turnout operates in the conventional way, with the frog polarity switched to suit the route
Action: press a momentary push button labelled 'Shunt'
a LED lights up
READY
the state machine is primed
< the rope shunt begins >
Action: move the points
the state machine operates a relay
SHUNT
the polarity of the frog is reversed
< the rope shunt continues to completion >
Action: return the points to their original location (always necessary to extract the loco)
the relay releases
the LED is extinguished
DEFAULT
the turnout operates in the conventional way, with the frog polarity switched to suit the route
Alternatively, go DCC and use one of those frog juicers to detect the short and set the frog accordingly. I have the bits and bobs to do this, but it spells the end for my HF coach lighting, and use of the layout as a test track for analogue models. I don't want to do this.